Using Praise to Shape Your Relationship

Using Praise to Shape Your Relationship

 

Leading the feminine through praise as a force for shaping your relationship

This is often an area of tremendous missed opportunity, as well as one of deep pain and misunderstanding.   Men will often approach the feminine the way they would one of their masculine friends.  Challenging her to do X, Y, or Z better or different.  That rarely inspires her to follow your lead or makes her feel cherished.  In fact, more often than not, it will piss her off and close her down.

In this 12 minute video taken from May, The Way of the Superior Man Training, in Santa Monica, John Wineland and Justin Patrick Pierce break down how to utilize the force of praise as a way to inspire, direct and shape your relating with the feminine.  It is actually easier than you think to:

  • Train yourself to see what is beautiful about her, vs. what needs to be changed or fixed

  • Learn to give feedback or opinions (when asked for them) in a way that opens her heart, rather than makes her feel criticized

  • Learn the difference between how the masculine is inspired and how the feminine grows and shines

  • Use praise to create a culture of worship, vs. one of complaint

  • Make her feel great about asking for your help

 

 

 

 

 

Ways of Being That Evoke the Best in Your Partner

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WAITING FOR A MAN TO TAKE THE LEAD

WAITING FOR A MAN TO TAKE THE LEAD

On one hand, you want him to lead you, and on the other, if nothing is happening, it is natural for you to step in and take charge. The problem is this will over the long haul, destroy sexual polarity and become castrating for him. In the this short video, John discusses the art of helping a man strengthen his capacity to take the lead in the relationship. 

THE LAWS OF LOVE [VIDEO: PART 2]

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The Embodied Men's Leadership Training 2017

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with John Wineland & Guru Jagat

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 A number of men show up on my doorstep, somewhat confused and sad as to why they are hitting a wall in their marriages or long term relationships.  The common refrain is something like “I don’t understand what is going on.  I do everything to take care of her and our family and yet she is still unsatisfied and unhappy.” 

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by John Wineland

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