In this 5 minute video, John and Guru Jagat talk about how subtle shifts in perspective can relax, support and really serve your partner. This may require giving up the need to be right and seeing their greatest possibility (rather than what they don't do or where they fall short).
On one hand, you want him to lead you, and on the other, if nothing is happening, it is natural for you to step in and take charge. The problem is this will over the long haul, destroy sexual polarity and become castrating for him. In the this short video, John discusses the art of helping a man strengthen his capacity to take the lead in the relationship.