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The Work


Discover how to instantly polarize your relationship. The magnetism of femininity is sexually alluring for men while strong masculine energy romances a woman.

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The Work


Discover how to instantly polarize your relationship. The magnetism of femininity is sexually alluring for men while strong masculine energy romances a woman.

 

 

the work

 

 

Embodiment, Intimacy and Purpose are at the core of the work
and the keys to creating sexual polarity and Depth in connection

Discover how to use use embodied practice and meditations to bring energy to your relationships; as well as depth and integrity to your life's mission.

 
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Masculine Practice


Masculine Practice


 

 

masculine practice

 

 

MASCULINE PRACTICE IS A PURPOSE-DRIVEN, EMBODIED WORK
FOR MEN BASED ON THE FOLLOWING PRINCIPLES:

 

Be simultaneously embodied, while deeply engaged in his relationships and in the world.   

Be committed to loving beyond habitual edges and closures.

Be a masculine presence who feels death as an ever present ally, sharpening his purpose and relaxing his needs.

Say YES to what IS with feeling and integrity.

Have Commitment and Discipline to a Daily Practice of embodiment and awareness.

 

 

 
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Masculine Practice


Masculine Practice


John has been a revelation for me as a coach and mentor. He has been offering me what I have sorely needed and hadn’t had the courage to develop until our work: my depth and my purpose as a man. The work itself is almost impossible to describe in a testimonial- I will say I have never been more present in all aspects of my life. This journey has been full of ritual, practice, stillness and reading works of substance. Which has lead to an utterly new and inspired interaction with the feminine. John’s work isn’t for everyone-just for those who crave a life of meaning, integrity and joy.
— JAMIE WOLLRAB, Director & Producer, Los Angeles CA
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Spiritual Intimacy


Spiritual Intimacy


 

 

spiritual intimacy
FOR COUPLES

 

 

 

GENEROSITY:  Love as spiritual practice requires us to give when we often don't feel like it, to feel into what another needs and push through our personal preferences or comfort zones to open their hearts and to put ourselves into our
lovers shoes to see what is true for them.  Generous loving is an intention that can
be cultivated and gifted as presence, as energy, as attention, as understanding.

 

EMBODIMENT:  Sex and love obviously are most deeply expressed through the body.  So we use Kundalini,
Taoist and other tantric practices to open our students physical, emotional and feeling
bodies to more fully give and receive love.   From this place, breath, eye contact,
sound, and touch all have deeper impact and effect.

 

PRACTICE:  The best relationships rest on two pillars.  The first is intimacy, or the removal of distance or separation from another; and the second is sexual polarity, or the energetic arc that is created when masculine and feminine poles are enhanced and celebrated.  We create and teach practices that allow for more appreciation and love through intimate communication and also, those which spark and foster the flow of sexual energy.  When intimacy and trust are combined with highly polarized sexual energy, the result are immediate and profound.

 

   

 

 

 

 
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Spiritual Intimacy


Spiritual Intimacy


John Wineland is a true gift to this world and to anyone who is lucky enough to work with him. If you’re willing to show up and do the brave and uncomfortable work that he so insightfully assigns, you will have no choice but to have a completely transformed open-hearted relationship full of love, connection (and sex)! He’s a fiercely loving soul who is equally masterful at acknowledging you without judgment and at the same time challenging you to rise above your habitual cycle of assuming and reacting. In only four sessions so far, it feels like my marriage has completely transformed - I feel loved, desired, heard, and satisfied in a whole new way by my husband, and I feel so much more equipped to express all of my emotions and the deep love I have for him.
— KELLY RAMON, Executive, High Performance Coach St. Louis MO
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Private Coaching


Private Coaching


 

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The ability to create depth and trust in  our relationships and communicate our vision boldly;
the ability to feel into what is required in both intimacy and business; 

and the strength of our nervous systems to overcome
habitual roadblocks and beliefs form the foundation of Embodied, High Performance Coaching.  

Each relationship and program is different and uniquely tailored to what matters most.   This deep and challenging work is certainly not for everyone, only those who want to experience an entirely new way of being in the world.

 

 
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Private Coaching


Private Coaching


I have had the enriching experience of working with John for several years, along with several highly acclaimed personal development coaches. John has taken his rightful place among the world’s leaders of men work and sexuality. He is a formidable coach, leader and visionary in this field. A man who leads and coaches by example — an individual who has done the deep work and continues to challenge and grow himself personally so that he can best serve his clients and the community.
John, and his work, are about heart and vulnerability, depth and integrity and manifesting personal power from this place. Most of all, John is about service — giving to his clients everything that they need to achieve their goals. It is a privilege to work with this man, to participate in his workshops and to be in his presence. He is an inspiration, a visionary; working with him will change your life. Dramatically.
— STEPHEN R. BOCHNER, M.D., Los Angeles CA