I believe we all crave the deepest forms of romantic and sexual intimacy. We want to experience love that is pure and unconditional. We want to worship those we love and we want to be worshipped in return. I believe we innately want to be able to share what is true in our hearts and be met with compassion and understanding, without being made wrong or told we need to change. I believe we want sex that blows open our hearts and makes us grateful to be alive.
The problem is not our desire to love well, nor our innate capacity to make it real. The reason we struggle is that people know that they want these things, even if they aren’t quite sure how to name them. Very few of us were taught how to create and sustain this type of sexual intimacy. We were sold the myth that beautiful connection just happens. Great sex is a result of natural attraction with the right person. Find the one, and your life will be a never-ending collage of vacations, intimate moments, beautiful children and mutual success.
The truth is that the capacity to experience this kind of depth and intimacy CAN be learned, practiced and even mastered. Generosity, breath and embodiment will unlock a realm of possibility in your sex and your relating you have only dreamt of.