I believe we all crave the deepest forms of romantic and sexual intimacy. We want to experience love that is pure and unconditional. We want to worship those we love and we want to be worshipped in return. I believe we innately want to be able to share what is true in our hearts and be met with compassion and understanding, without being made wrong or told we need to change.  I believe we want sex that blows open our hearts and makes us grateful to be alive.  

The problem is not our desire to love well, nor our innate capacity to make it real. The reason we struggle is that people know that they want these things, even if they aren’t quite sure how to name them. Very few of us were taught how to create and sustain this type of sexual intimacy. We were sold the myth that beautiful connection just happens. Great sex is a result of natural attraction with the right person. Find the one, and your life will be a never-ending collage of vacations, intimate moments, beautiful children and mutual success.

HISTORY & PHILOSOPHY

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For the better part of a decade, John Wineland, an LA-based men's group facilitator, speaker and teacher has been guiding both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy and embodiment. 

Known for his groundbreaking work with men, John travels world-wide teaching his vision of embodied men's work and deep relational practice.  In 2014, he founded The New Men’s Work Project, which has attracted men from around the world looking to develop as leaders in their relationships and communities. The Project is committed to the staggering goal of creating 1000 men's groups worldwide in the next ten years and has already supported trainings and groups throughout Europe and the U.S.  John's clients include entrepreneurs, leading thinkers in the world of personal development and entertainment, Ted speakers and creative leaders in Hollywood.

John brings a multi-faceted approach, which is both energetic and highly practical, to his workshops and experiential coaching sessions. John's embodiment-driven teaching draws from not only over 30 years experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice, but from 10 years intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida.  Drawing from Deida's revolutionary framework, as well as the deep lineages of Vajrayana, Tantra, Kundalini yoga, Taoist and Iron Shirt Qigong traditions, John seeks to create a profound experience for men and women longing to express their deepest desires with open, fierce and loving hearts. 

John's work has been featured on multiple podcast and publications; including Zen Habits, The Elephant Journal, Sex with Emily, Man Talks, The Good Men Project and Love TV.  John's first book, The Art of Masculine Leadership, will be available in the fall.  He will also be traveling throughout Europe and the U.S. leading workshops on embodied men's work, spiritual intimacy and sexual practice. Specific offerings include:

  • The Art of Masculine Leadership book to be released this fall

  • Ongoing contributor to the Sex with Emily podcast

  • The Embodied Men's Leadership Training, a 9-month men's training program focusing on the practice of embodied leadership, purpose and masculine spiritual practice in service of love; includes three 4-day live Embodied Men’s Training Intensives

  • The Relationship Salon, an 8-month deep exploration into the art of spiritual and sexual intimacy with Founder of Authentic World, Kendra Cunov; includes three 3-day live Art of Fearless Intimacy intensives

  • The Embodied Women’s Relationship Immersion, a 7-month program focusing on relationship and leadership training for women; includes two 3-day live immersive training intensives

  • The Way of the Superior Man Training, a year-long virtual and in-person men's group exploring and practicing the teachings of David Deida's seminal book; co-taught with Justin Patrick Pierce

 “John Wineland is a true leader in the world of Men’s work. A man so rare that I trust him to guide and advise me personally. He is a powerful coach and a leader within the coaching community. John models a strength built on inner confidence and true vulnerability. He brings heart and courage and an incredible presence to his coaching. He has an inspiring vision for the future of relationships and he is a natural leader that men - and women - look up to and learn from. He is a champion, a provider, a protector, and a loving father. If you are offered the opportunity, don’t hesitate to learn from John.”  — RICH LITVIN, LIFE COACH, AUTHOR "THE PROSPEROUS COACH" LOS ANGELES, CA WWW.RICHLITVIN.COM

“John Wineland is a true leader in the world of Men’s work. A man so rare that I trust him to guide and advise me personally. He is a powerful coach and a leader within the coaching community. John models a strength built on inner confidence and true vulnerability. He brings heart and courage and an incredible presence to his coaching. He has an inspiring vision for the future of relationships and he is a natural leader that men - and women - look up to and learn from. He is a champion, a provider, a protector, and a loving father. If you are offered the opportunity, don’t hesitate to learn from John.”

— RICH LITVIN, LIFE COACH, AUTHOR "THE PROSPEROUS COACH" LOS ANGELES, CA WWW.RICHLITVIN.COM

 “John Wineland is a true gift to this world and to anyone who is lucky enough to work with him. If you’re willing to show up and do the brave and uncomfortable work that he so insightfully assigns, you will have no choice but to have a completely transformed open-hearted relationship full of love, connection (and sex)! He’s a fiercely loving soul who is equally masterful at acknowledging you without judgment and at the same time challenging you to rise above your habitual cycle of assuming and reacting. In only four sessions so far, it feels like my marriage has completely transformed - I feel loved, desired, heard, and satisfied in a whole new way by my husband, and I feel so much more equipped to express all of my emotions and the deep love I have for him."  —KELLY RAMON, EXECUTIVE COACH, WWW.KELLYRAMON.COM, ST. LOUIS, MO

“John Wineland is a true gift to this world and to anyone who is lucky enough to work with him. If you’re willing to show up and do the brave and uncomfortable work that he so insightfully assigns, you will have no choice but to have a completely transformed open-hearted relationship full of love, connection (and sex)! He’s a fiercely loving soul who is equally masterful at acknowledging you without judgment and at the same time challenging you to rise above your habitual cycle of assuming and reacting. In only four sessions so far, it feels like my marriage has completely transformed - I feel loved, desired, heard, and satisfied in a whole new way by my husband, and I feel so much more equipped to express all of my emotions and the deep love I have for him."

—KELLY RAMON, EXECUTIVE COACH, WWW.KELLYRAMON.COM, ST. LOUIS, MO

 “There are very few men willing to step so courageously into their fears and follow their life’s purpose to the edge of the world with a wide-open, bleeding, vulnerable heart. John is amongst these few. Having worked with John for years, together as students, as teachers, and as friends, there is no element of this man that lacks truth, passion, or true love for what he does. His love extends far beyond himself and is available for every other life he touches. John’s ability to see through the bullshit and offer guidance with a deep heart connection is the gift he brings to the world. John is an inspiration to me. ”  — JUSTIN PATRICK PIERCE, FOUNDER OF METAPHYSICAL FITNESS

“There are very few men willing to step so courageously into their fears and follow their life’s purpose to the edge of the world with a wide-open, bleeding, vulnerable heart. John is amongst these few. Having worked with John for years, together as students, as teachers, and as friends, there is no element of this man that lacks truth, passion, or true love for what he does. His love extends far beyond himself and is available for every other life he touches. John’s ability to see through the bullshit and offer guidance with a deep heart connection is the gift he brings to the world. John is an inspiration to me. ”

— JUSTIN PATRICK PIERCE, FOUNDER OF METAPHYSICAL FITNESS