Her Complaint is More About the Quality Than the Quantity of Your Presence

In this short video from the July 2018 Embodied Men’s Leadership Intensive in Amsterdam, John speaks to what’s underneath your feminine partner’s complaint about your lack of ‘presence,’ and ways in which you can create more integrity and trust in your relationship.

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You Don't Want to Try to Salsa Dance with a Broken Leg: The Therapeutic, Spiritual and Yogic Approaches to Healing Sexual Trauma

In this short video from the February 2019 Art of Loving Fiercely intensive in Santa Monica, CA, John describes three approaches to healing deep sexual trauma and abuse inspired by his teacher David Deida’s framework: the therapeutic, spiritual and yogic approaches.

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Masculine and Feminine Transmission is Not Gender Specific

In this video from the February 2019 Spiritual Intimacy and Yogic Sexuality workshop at the DEN Meditation Center in Los Angeles, John, with the help of Assistants Nicholette and Blake, gives a real time demonstration of how transmitting masculine and feminine energy is not specific to gender.

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