Posts in how to love well
Honoring Your Own Needs as a Gift of Love

In this video from the 2020 Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John guides a practice to meet your own needs in your heart. He asserts that when your partner feels and backs away from your unmet needs, their response is actually a gift. By connecting with and honoring your own needs first, while also acknowledging your partner's needs, you can show up to your partner cleanly and in integrity with your own heart.

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Flipping the Karmic Script in Relationships

In this video from the 2020 Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John states that the moment we can flip the script and be the giver of our unmet childhood needs (i.e. safety, unconditional love, total acceptance, etc.), we create an opening to elevate from the incessant search for the “right partner” to meet them.

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Come and Get Me, Dragon King!

In this video from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John works with a woman to unwind her belief that, “The men who can meet me are not here.” He gives her embodied practices to open new possibilities, which can be applied to any “occurring world” belief in your life.

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