In this video from the 2020 Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John guides a practice to meet your own needs in your heart. He asserts that when your partner feels and backs away from your unmet needs, their response is actually a gift. By connecting with and honoring your own needs first, while also acknowledging your partner's needs, you can show up to your partner cleanly and in integrity with your own heart.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John states that the moment we can flip the script and be the giver of our unmet childhood needs (i.e. safety, unconditional love, total acceptance, etc.), we create an opening to elevate from the incessant search for the “right partner” to meet them.
Read MoreIn this short video from the 2020 Advanced Practice Group, John speaks to the “Oh shit” moment that many of us face when we actually get what we want in relationship.
Read MoreRather than look for a solution to get over a feeling you don’t want to feel, in this video from the 2020 Advanced Practice Group, John offers a practice for being with your own heart as deeply and fully as possible and honoring the feelings that you typically avoid in order to create true connection.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Depth & Devotion Program, a 90-day virtual experience in the Art of Sacred Intimacy, John describes a framework for relating that he cultivated with Kendra Cunov based on the 3 Stages of Relating created by David Deida.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Depth & Devotion Program, a 90-day virtual experience in the Art of Sacred Intimacy, John describes why he believes that consciously committing to making our love artful, moment-to-moment, is the biggest piece of self-responsibility that we can imagine.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Depth & Devotion Program, a 90-day virtual experience in the Art of Sacred Intimacy, John describes the arts and skills of praise and worship, and why he believes they are the most important practices in relationship.
Read MoreIn this video from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John works with a woman to unwind her belief that, “The men who can meet me are not here.” He gives her embodied practices to open new possibilities, which can be applied to any “occurring world” belief in your life.
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