In this short video from the September 2019 Embodied Women’s Weekend Intensive, John expresses, “It’s not the getting of the love that is going to make you happy…it’s blasting out love…that’s what’s going to change everything.”
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In this video from the February 2019 Art of Loving Fiercely intensive in Santa Monica, John asks partners who work together, “How committed to the dynamic of sexual polarity are you?”
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Generosity is the foundational principle of spiritual intimacy and yet, the predominant problem in relationships today is the pernicious and often self-justified lack of unconditional giving. Most couples I see are downright stingy. We are stingy with our adoration, our praise, the perfect sexual gifting, our attention, our truths, our vulnerabilities, and most importantly, our worship. It is easy for us to open and love when our partners are pleasing; when they are giving us what we think we want. But true spiritual practice requires us to love when there is no guarantee of reciprocity, to trust when we are scared shitless to reveal our tender heart, and to lead when we are exhausted and disheartened.
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Virtually everyone wants more intimacy! Questions I am asked by men and women constantly are, “How can I connect with my woman/man ANYTIME?? How do we stay connected? And how can I create connection when we are distant or mad at each other?” And the truth is people over complicate this. What most don’t know is that there are some very simple awareness practices that can create
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