In this video from the 2020 Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John states that the moment we can flip the script and be the giver of our unmet childhood needs (i.e. safety, unconditional love, total acceptance, etc.), we create an opening to elevate from the incessant search for the “right partner” to meet them.
Read MoreIn this video from the August 2019 Embodied Men’s Leadership Training & Embodied Women’s Relationship Immersion combined program intensive in Santa Monica, John describes the arc of transformation that is possible through embodied yogic practice.
Read MoreMost men don't truly grasp the impact of poor leadership on a woman's body, nervous system and heart. Whether you are buckling under the stresses of modern life or playing the good guy, you starve her of the confident, trustable, playful masculine leadership she craves.
My teacher said it is like a "pin prick" every time we are unconscious or unfeeling to her heart. Added up over the years, it can turn gangrene. She wants to be led into a deeper experience of her own heart. And she wants you to lead her there.
Read more in this writing sample from the book I'll be releasing this fall: The Art of Masculine Leadership.
Read MoreIn this short video from the The Embodied Men's Intensive in New York, John discusses how to claim the masculine pole in any moment and create a natural sexual polarity that serves her, rather than react in irritation.
Read MoreA number of men show up on my doorstep, somewhat confused and sad as to why they are hitting a wall in their marriages or long term relationships. The common refrain is something like “I don’t understand what is going on. I do everything to take care of her and our family and yet she is still unsatisfied and unhappy.”
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