In this video from the 2018 Embodied Men’s Leadership Training retreat in the Panamint Valley, CA desert, John describes how a masculine partner can lead a relationship to a close with care and integrity.
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I believe we have reached a time in romantic relationships where we, as men who endeavor to lead our relationships with more integrity, depth, and love than ever before, have a choice. We can continue to go on eschewing the sins of our fathers, our privilege (especially as white males), our numbness, our lack of embodied presence, our addictions to comfort, and our emotional indulgences. Or we can take 100% responsibility for what males, as by-and-large the controlling gender since the dawn of humanity, have allowed to take hold of on the planet.
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In this video from the November 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in Santa Monica, John and Kendra address two topics in the modern relational climate that often challenge and neutralize a polarized dynamic: feminism and consent.
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In this 2-minute video from the November 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in Santa Monica, CA, John and Kendra speak to why it is important to let your freak flag fly!
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In this short video from the 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive at FlowSpace in Emeryville, CA, John and Kendra speak directly to how a man can hold and express his own feminine heart.
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In this 5-minute clip from the August 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy workshop in Boulder CO, John and Kendra describe ways to recognize how and why we close our hearts after having a deep experience of love.
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One of the silent killers of devotional and inspired intimacy is the leakage of energy outside the container of the relationship. To truly understand how damaging this can be, let’s start with this assumption: our lovers feel everything we do. Maybe not enough to know exactly what you said to your best friend over lunch or to that acquaintance in a social media message, but they feel more than most people comprehend. They feel the leakage of energy. Everything we do—and I do mean everything—creates a ripple of energy that our intimate partners can feel.
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In this short video from the August 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy weekend intensive in Boulder CO, John and Kendra explore two different approaches to resolving conflict in your relationship.
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