In this 2-minute video from the November 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in Santa Monica, CA, John and Kendra speak to why it is important to let your freak flag fly!

In this short video from the 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive at FlowSpace in Emeryville, CA, John and Kendra speak directly to how a man can hold and express his own feminine heart.

In this 5-minute clip from the August 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy workshop in Boulder CO, John and Kendra describe ways to recognize how and why we close our hearts after having a deep experience of love.

One of the silent killers of devotional and inspired intimacy is the leakage of energy outside the container of the relationship. To truly understand how damaging this can be, let’s start with this assumption: our lovers feel everything we do. Maybe not enough to know exactly what you said to your best friend over lunch or to that acquaintance in a social media message, but they feel more than most people comprehend. They feel the leakage of energy. Everything we do—and I do mean everything—creates a ripple of energy that our intimate partners can feel.

In this short video from the August 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy weekend intensive in Boulder CO, John and Kendra explore two different approaches to resolving conflict in your relationship.

The Gillette ad is fine...

It is an attempt by corporate America to bring into the mainstream something that has not been said enough. Granted, profit is the true motivating force, not justice. But it is a start at entering the conversation.

‘She who must be touchable’ has pleasure in her body and yearning in her heart. In this 7-minute video from The Art of Fearless Intimacy workshop in Boulder CO, John and Kendra Cunov explore ways that the feminine can inspire deep intimacy from her masculine partner through her own practice, beginning with this exploration: How much pleasure can you feel in your body right now?

Generosity is the foundational principle of spiritual intimacy and yet, the predominant problem in relationships today is the pernicious and often self-justified lack of unconditional giving. Most couples I see are downright stingy. We are stingy with our adoration, our praise, the perfect sexual gifting, our attention, our truths, our vulnerabilities, and most importantly, our worship. It is easy for us to open and love when our partners are pleasing; when they are giving us what we think we want. But true spiritual practice requires us to love when there is no guarantee of reciprocity, to trust when we are scared shitless to reveal our tender heart, and to lead when we are exhausted and disheartened.

Part of being human is having shadows. These are the parts of us that we repress, deny or avoid; the parts that are, for example, needy, critical, vampiric, destructive, etc. In this 7-minute video from the Embodied Women’s Relationship Immersion Live Session in Santa Monica CA in April 2018, John describes his approach to shadow work, as inspired by the work of Carl Jung and Ken Wilbur.

In this 4-minute video from the Embodied Women’s Weekend Intensive in Santa Monica in April 2018, John offers real-world examples of how to amplify what feels good in a sexual moment and artfully express your No without killing the love.