In this video from the 2020 Embodied Women's Relationship Immersion, John explains the concept of an "occurring world" and how to bring awareness to these unconscious beliefs.
Read MoreIn this short video from the 2020 Embodied Men’s Leadership Training, John asserts that there needs to be an equal amount of Masculine and Feminine practice in men’s work.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Advanced Practice Group, John describes how Masculine and Feminine principles apply in business and why the practice of cultivating both will bring success to any offering.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Advanced Practice Group, John describes how leadership is an integrated expression of your cultivated masculine and feminine capacities.
Read MoreIn this video from the 2020 Depth & Devotion Program, a 90-day virtual experience in the Art of Sacred Intimacy, John describes the arts and skills of praise and worship, and why he believes they are the most important practices in relationship.
Read MoreIn this video from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John describes how you can artfully play with the feminine complaint.
Read MoreIn this video from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John speaks to the quintessential feminine desire to be ravished.
Read MoreTake Full Responsibility for the Culture You Have Created
This is an area where many men get stuck. It takes tremendous courage, depth and insight; as well as ruthless honesty to look at where you have been neglectful, unconscious, selfish, stingy and maybe even downright abusive. Most will not have the constitution to truly look at how they have created, or at the very least, allowed an unhealthy culture to take hold in their love dynamics. It requires the skill of being able to hold to a firm truth in the face of resistance—without closing—that most have not cultivated. As a result, most men will either push too hard and try to impose their will by blaming, shaming, or dominating their partners; or they will quietly ignore the most important issues of the relationship and turn their attention elsewhere, where they are more apt to win. But eventually the dysfunction will get revealed and often by that time, the partners no longer see each other as healing lovers, but more like angry combatants.
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