The Experience of the Feminine Walking in the World
In this video from the June 2019 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in New York, John and Kendra bring awareness to the experience of the feminine walking around in the world.
They begin with an experiment that John learned from Alison Armstrong, in which they ask how many men in the room felt legitimately unsafe in the past 2 weeks. A few men raise their hands. They ask the same question to the women in the room and nearly all of them raise their hands.
You’ll also learn:
Given that the experience of the feminine in the world often includes feeling unsafe, if you wish that your partner relax into her feminine, you must include this in awareness as you lead her.
Be meticulous when holding the structure and communicating your plans for your next date. For example, “Here is the address of the restaurant. Call an Uber and I’ll meet you out on the curb at 8.” That kind of awareness is required for her nervous system to relax.
Most men are either unconscious or avoidant of the feminine form. The experience of the male gaze as a sexually desirous experience is intense and often invasive, so if a masculine being can practice seeing the feminine heart, or “the cosmos”through her eyes, and train himself to be in awe of the “great feminine” through a particular feminine being, this will deepen the moment.