Learning to Love Beyond History

In this short video from the February 2020 Valentine’s Intensive in Malibu, CA, John describes the Shamanic and Yogic approach to relating.

You’ll learn:

  • We’re waking up to the fact that we don’t need one another, we’re programmed to reject and seek love in a certain way, and yet, we want love more than ever.

  • The moment you stand in front of an intimate partner, your childhood programming becomes activated. You may begin to ask yourself, “Am I good enough?” “Are they good enough?” “Is he safe?” “Can I open her?”

  • You are most powerful in your capacity to bring your magic and gifts when you have no history.

  • This is not about ignoring the past or pretending it didn’t happen.

  • You can choose to let go of your history, trauma, past rejection, etc. in the moment because there is a human being in front of you who wants to love you well.

  • The way to do this is to allow history to recede into the background, like a shawl that you let slide off your back.

If you want to live in service of love, moment-to-moment, practice giving up history.