She Wants You to Eat Her Heart Out for the Sake of Love

In this video from the June 2020 Art of Spiritual Intimacy Online Weekend Immersion, John speaks to the quintessential feminine desire to be ravished.

 
 

You’ll learn:

  • A lot of masculine partners are surprised by how deep the feminine desire to be fiercely and lovingly ravished often is

  • When she says she wants to be “ravished,” she is saying that she wants to feel the part of you that would eat her heart out for the sake of love

  • “For the sake of love” is the key to bringing dark and fierce energy during sex without hurting your partner

  • To evoke “the ravisher” in your partner, you must become “She who must be ravished”

  • It might not happen immediately — you may need to steep in that energy for a few minutes — but you will see visible shifts in your partner’s breath, posture and energy as a result

  • To reveal that core of a desire, especially one that is dark and primal like ravishment, can be very vulnerable for the feminine — a lot of women carry shame around wanting it

  • It can also be very vulnerable for a masculine partner to claim their partner in this way

  • The masculine counterpoint to “She who must be ravished” is “He who must be worshipped and surrendered to” — to take that pose, you have to breathe and sit in a certain integrity