In this video from the February 2019 Art of Loving Fiercely intensive in Santa Monica, John asks partners who work together, “How committed to the dynamic of sexual polarity are you?”Read More
In this video from the November 2018 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in Santa Monica, John and Kendra describe why it’s important to come to an intimate moment with as little history as possible.Read More
Men and women will often come to me and ask, in hundreds of various ways, "Why wasn’t he interested?" This could be: "Why wasn’t she inspired for a second date?" "Why did she all of a sudden go cold after 6 months?" "How come my husband has become nasty and uninterested in me sexually? He used to love to hang out; now he only wants to work." The length and form of the relationship is less important than the actual texture of the problem.Read More
In this 3-minute video from the November 2017 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive at FlowSpace in Emeryville, CA, John and Kendra describe how to fully attune to a feminine partner and give her what she needs in order to feel safe to reveal the emotion in her deepest heart and the pleasure in her body.Read More
In this 4-minute video from the November 2017 The Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive in Berkeley, CA, John and Kendra demonstrate a practice for expressing pain and anger that will bring more connection and intimacy to your relationship.
The masculine and feminine are transmitting and evoking from each other all the time. If the feminine withholds the truth of her heart, the masculine response will be distance. If the masculine doesn't hold a trustworthy container, it will cause the feminine to hold her breath. If she doesn't reveal the pain of being dropped by her partner, she will evoke his distance.
Here you'll learn how to artfully use playful forms of expression, like the "sacred temper tantrum," to break this dynamic and draw something different and more alive from your partner.Read More
In this short video from the October 2017 Embodied Men's Leadership Intensive in New York, John describes the basic steps to the essential masculine practice: relax your body, place your awareness into a person or situation, and wait for an impulse.Read More
In this short video from the The Embodied Men's Intensive in New York, John discusses how to claim the masculine pole in any moment and create a natural sexual polarity that serves her, rather than react in irritation.Read More
At the Embodied Men's Leadership Training, John address the masculine practice of structure and withholding ejaculation.Read More