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This is often an area of tremendous missed opportunity, as well as one of deep pain and misunderstanding. Men will often approach the feminine the way they would one of their masculine friends. Challenging her to do X, Y, or Z better or different. That rarely inspires her to follow your lead or makes her feel cherished. In fact, more often than not, it will piss her off and close her down.

create more intimacy, masculine leadership, sexual polarityJohn WinelandMay 25, 2017praise, masculine/feminine, intimate communication, masculine leadership

Moving from the First to Third Stage--Making Art in the Moment

In this 3 minute video, John and Justin discuss a simple framework for understanding the 1st, 2nd and 3rd stages of relating and how to bring it into your relationship.

create more intimacy, sexual polarityJohn WinelandMarch 13, 2017divine masculine, divine feminine, toxic masculine, toxic feminine, healthy

THE QUALITY A MAN VALUES MOST IN RELATIONSHIP

Like it or not, the male brain is biologically wired to seek sexual variety. That variety can be found...

for the feminine, create more intimacy, sexual polarityJohn WinelandAugust 19, 2016spiritual intimacy, spiritual freedom, purpose, masculine/feminine

CONDUCTING LOVE THROUGH THE BODY (FROM THE 6 PILLARS OF DEEP RELATIONSHIP WORK) [VIDEO- 37 MINUTES]

Like any skill we want to master, you can start with learning the techniques that allow for the conduction of love, presence and depth so that you...

create more intimacy, embodied practices, for the feminineJohn WinelandAugust 2, 2016love, better lover, personal practice, embodiment

WHAT MEN ARE CRAVING [VIDEO]

This talk to a group of powerful coaches addressed the question of what men are craving from the feminine, but are rarely asking.

for the feminine, how to love well, create more intimacyJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016masculine/feminine, what men want, desire, divine feminine

INTENTIONAL/IMAGO DIALOGUE [VIDEO]

The ability to validate what your partner is feeling; then, sincerely empathize and make them feel seen is an incredible tool that will change all of your relationships. Commit to it for 40 days and see what shifts.

embodied practices, create more intimacy, how to love wellJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016intimate communication, personal development, empathy, masculine/feminine

WHY WE EJACULATE

We did 2 hours of focused sexual practice this weekend in 6 Month Advanced Group I do on the subject of ejaculation and circulating sexual energy!! What I always notice is exactly how hard it is to reverse YEARS of habitual ejaculatory process through breath, yogic and meditative practice.

embodied practices, masculine leadership, sexual polarity, create more intimacyJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016libido, meditation, sexual practice, relaxation, better lover

3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

Virtually everyone wants more intimacy! Questions I am asked by men and women constantly are, “How can I connect with my woman/man ANYTIME?? How do we stay connected? And how can I create connection when we are distant or mad at each other?” And the truth is people over complicate this. What most don’t know is that there are some very simple awareness practices that can create

create more intimacy, how to love well, embodied practicesJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016generosity, better lover, intimacy, connection

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