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Attuning to Her Body

In this 3-minute video from the November 2017 Art of Fearless Intimacy intensive at FlowSpace in Emeryville, CA, John and Kendra describe how to fully attune to a feminine partner and give her what she needs in order to feel safe to reveal the emotion in her deepest heart and the pleasure in her body.

sexual polarity, masculine leadership, create more intimacy, how to love wellJohn WinelandJune 7, 2018intimacy, sexual polarity, embodiment, pleasure

The Arc of Masculine Spiritual Development

I wrote this as the introduction to my book to be released this year. It captures everything in my heart I want every man to hear - from the guy in front of me at the check-out line, to the brother who pulls me aside at a workshop with tears streaming down his face, begging me to save his marriage. It’s honestly what I’ve needed to hear again and again throughout my life. This piece was published by Mind, Body, Green on April 3, 2018 in an article called “What Does Masculine Spiritual Development Look Like?” To me, it is simply an ode to my brothers.

masculine leadership, how to love wellJohn WinelandMay 14, 2018masculine, mens work, mens group, masculine leadership, brotherhood

The Embodied Men's Leadership Training 2017

The two most asked questions are: If I am not sure what my life's mission is, how can I set my life up to find it? And, I have a vague idea of what I want to create but...

masculine leadership, embodied practices, sexual polarity, how to love wellJohn WinelandOctober 16, 2016mens group, men's work, personal development, purpose, embodiment

WHAT MEN ARE CRAVING [VIDEO]

This talk to a group of powerful coaches addressed the question of what men are craving from the feminine, but are rarely asking.

for the feminine, how to love well, create more intimacyJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016masculine/feminine, what men want, desire, divine feminine

INTENTIONAL/IMAGO DIALOGUE [VIDEO]

The ability to validate what your partner is feeling; then, sincerely empathize and make them feel seen is an incredible tool that will change all of your relationships. Commit to it for 40 days and see what shifts.

embodied practices, create more intimacy, how to love wellJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016intimate communication, personal development, empathy, masculine/feminine

THE MYTH OF THE GOOD HUSBAND

A number of men show up on my doorstep, somewhat confused and sad as to why they are hitting a wall in their marriages or long term relationships. The common refrain is something like “I don’t understand what is going on. I do everything to take care of her and our family and yet she is still unsatisfied and unhappy.”

masculine leadership, how to love wellJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016marriage, relationships, masculine/feminine, masculine leadership, trust

3 WAYS TO DEEPEN INTIMACY IN ANY MOMENT [VIDEO]

Virtually everyone wants more intimacy! Questions I am asked by men and women constantly are, “How can I connect with my woman/man ANYTIME?? How do we stay connected? And how can I create connection when we are distant or mad at each other?” And the truth is people over complicate this. What most don’t know is that there are some very simple awareness practices that can create

create more intimacy, how to love well, embodied practicesJohn WinelandApril 30, 2016generosity, better lover, intimacy, connection

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